Lord Henry Wotton is the smooth talker of The Picture of Dorian Gray. He’s an elegant man with quick wit and a gift for turning any idea into a sharp, memorable line. He likes comfort and style, but what he enjoys most is conversation—pushing people with clever talk just to see what happens next. To him, life is a game of ideas, and he wants to be the one dealing the cards.
When he meets Dorian, Lord Henry becomes the voice in his ear that says youth and pleasure are all that matter. He doesn’t shout or order; he charms. He wraps risky thoughts in bright words so they sound harmless, even wise. He tells Dorian to follow every desire, then steps back, as if he were only sharing a point of view.
What makes Lord Henry interesting is that he treats people like experiments. He likes to test a theory about human nature, then watch the results from a safe distance. He rarely admits fault, because he sees himself as “just talking.” His calm, amused tone hides a coolness: he wants to feel curious, not responsible.
In the story, Lord Henry stands for a way of living that prizes beauty, youth, and sensation above duty or kindness. He isn’t a villain in the loud sense; he’s a steady influence who makes selfishness sound elegant. His charm is real, and so is the damage it can do. By the end, he remains largely untouched, which is part of his power—and part of the warning the novel carries.
We are punished for our refusals. Every impulse that we strive to strangle broods in the mind and poisons us… The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it. Resist it, and your soul grows sick with longing for the things it has forbidden to itself…
fromThe Picture of Dorian GraybyOscar WildeWhen we are happy, we are always good, but when we are good, we are not always happy.
fromThe Picture of Dorian GraybyOscar WildeYou will always be fond of me. I represent to you all the sins you have never had the courage to commit.
fromThe Picture of Dorian GraybyOscar WildeTo cure the soul by means of the senses, and the senses by means of the soul!
fromThe Picture of Dorian GraybyOscar WildeNowadays people know the price of everything and the value of nothing.
fromThe Picture of Dorian GraybyOscar WildeHumanity takes itself too seriously. It is the world’s original sin… Nowadays most people die of a sort of creeping common sense, and discover when it is too late that the only things one never regrets are one’s mistakes.
fromThe Picture of Dorian GraybyOscar WildeBecause to influence a person is to give him one’s own soul. He does not think his natural thoughts… He becomes an echo of some one else’s music, an actor of a part that has not been written for him. The aim of life is self-development… People are afraid of themselves, nowadays.
fromThe Picture of Dorian GraybyOscar WildeLive! Live the wonderful life that is in you! Let nothing be lost upon you. Be always searching for new sensations. Be afraid of nothing… A new Hedonism—that is what our century wants.
fromThe Picture of Dorian GraybyOscar Wilde